Saturday, October 5, 2013

Violence


This is the book from home

As I get older, in some ways, I become more nostalgic. I want to see the shows and reread the stories that I remember vaguely from my childhood. At home, I have a large book that contains a collection of different fairytales. Throughout the book are beautiful drawings to illustrate the tales. Last year I returned to this book because of readings in my dual-credit English class.  We were reading a section over the Cinderella myth, which included some works by Bettleheim and others. We had to write an essay over the topic and in the course of writing I really began to reassess all of the “children’s” fairytales that I had read.
Fairytales are, in actuality, very violent! Throughout the whole storybook that I received when I was about 1 year old, someone always died, usually a violent one. Tales from A Thousand and One Nights contained people chopped up then sewed together and people burned alive by oil.  “The Little Match Girl” had the main character freeze to death. “Rapunzel” had the prince fall from the tower and gouge out his eyes on thorns. The list can go on.
Why do we supply such stories to children?  People always talk about sheltering the innocent.  So we give them fairytales and sing songs like “Ring around the Rosy” and “Rock-a-by Baby,” one that is a reference to people dying in the Black Plague and the other about a baby in a tree falling when the tree breaks (think of the words).  When the story is said/sung with a smile and sweet words our minds skip over the meaning/violence we just witnessed.  Kind of makes you wonder what else you missed in that which you embraced so enthusiastically.













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